Orders of Love

Why do women betray one another?

Why do women betray one another? In all of my years socialising, meeting people, studying cultures and working with thousands of individuals, I’ve heard plenty of women use the word ‘whore’ or other derogatory words to describe another woman. Why is that? The feminine has been subjugated for so long that the only historical way […]

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Keeping Secrets – A Life Limiting Habit

We’ve all heard the expression ‘the truth will set you free’, but what do secrets do? Keeping secrets has a function of either controlling others, keeping ourselves safe from perceived danger or retribution, or, believing that withholding information or feelings will somehow preserve other people’s perception of us. There are different types of secrets: 1.

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Adoption – Healing the Wound of Adoption

In this episode Shavasti shares his work with adoptees and introduces us to a fresh way of looking at all those involved: the adopted child, the biological parents, biological grandparents and the adoptive parents. In a frank and compassionate manner Shavasti discusses the often hidden needs, roles, attitudes, feelings of everyone involved in order to

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Family Constellations – The Foundation of Change Work ©

Firstly, you don’t need to have a ‘problematic’ or ‘strained’ relationship with your family, children, current or former partner or spouse to benefit from this work. So let’s start by letting go of any images and feelings that the word ‘family’ may conjure up. Let us instead think of the word ‘origins’. When we hear,

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