My Near Death Experience – On the Edges of Infinity, Journey to the Source and Back In January 2013 I had a minor motorcycle accident that led me to contract a very serious case of cellulitis with multiple strains of infection. This caused me to be on an antibiotic drip for more than 16 days […]
Fate & Destiny – Forgiving our Past, Embracing Roots and accepting what IS
What we are born into is our fate. We are born into a certain family, we are born into a certain physical body. We have a gender. We come in either male or female, straight, gay, bi-sexual or we have some other fate in terms of our gender identification, or perhaps even physical identification as […]
Weeping for the Lost Ones
When I was in South Africa I had the privilege to work with a group of men who had been in the special forces under the old Apartheid regime. These men had been involved in state sponsored torture of their victims, mostly black Africans who were part of the struggle. What I learnt from working […]
Healing our World – One Individual at a Time
We are not islands. We are born into many histories that have formed and shaped our world, these histories are more than just the stories that have been told and are far more than the books that have been written to tell one person’s or one nation’s version of events. History is a living entity […]
Keeping Secrets – A Life Limiting Habit
We’ve all heard the expression ‘the truth will set you free’, but what do secrets do? Keeping secrets has a function of either controlling others, keeping ourselves safe from perceived danger or retribution, or, believing that withholding information or feelings will somehow preserve other people’s perception of us. There are different types of secrets:1. Secret […]
Why do women betray one another?
Why do women betray one another? In all of my years socialising, meeting people, studying cultures and working with thousands of individuals, I’ve heard plenty of women use the word ‘whore’ or other derogatory words to describe another woman. Why is that? The feminine has been subjugated for so long that the only historical way […]
Honouring Past Relationships
Honouring Past Relationships – Navigating our Partner’s Past, Honouring our Own Many years ago when a couple came to me for some counselling it unfolded that the wife in this second marriage felt very challenged by the lack of respect being shown her by her husband’s teenage children. In this day and age, this story […]
Keeping Secrets – A Life Limiting Habit
By familyconstellations on 08/05/2015 in Articles, Blog, Family Constellations, Healing, Uncategorized
We’ve all heard the expression ‘the truth will set you free’, but what do secrets do? Keeping secrets has a function of either controlling others, keeping ourselves safe from perceived danger or retribution, or, believing that withholding information or feelings will somehow preserve other people’s perception of us. There are different types of secrets: 1. […]
Whose Life are you Living?
Whose life are you living? – Stepping out of a life of disappointment Each of us is born into a story that is already being told. The ghosts and the stories of the past are alive and well and much of the script of our lives has already been written. It is written without our […]
Ancestral Healing: Healing our Inherited Stories
Each of us is born into a story that is already being told. The ghosts and the stories of the past are alive and well and much of the script of our lives has already been written. It is written without our consent or knowledge, not written from malice, but written as an addendum to […]